- read the things they write - ask their go-to movies - observe the way they treat their pets - check out the songs they listen to - ask them if they prefer tea or coffee - converse with them under the stars - do they like summer over winter? - observe how they act when they're mad - do they sleep with lights off or on? - when they watch the skies, do they observe the moon or the stars first? - would they rather eat alone? - how do they treat those who are 'inferior to them? - the way they approach strangers when they're lost - if they like texting better than calling - how they act when they're scared - if they like rewriting their notes for an exam - during what situation do their eyes shine the brightest? - the things they say when they're partly intoxicated - how they act when they're alone and with their friends - how they look at the people they love - what is their most favourite thing about themselves?