i dont understand why someone is trying to help me when they need help themselves makes no sense i think you should take the time to really appreciate that person because when someone is helping you when they themselves are in need thats not just because theyre trying to help thats love genuine love whether its platonically, romantically or whatever they have that love and theyre giving it to you so you should be grateful for who they are as a person because there are not many people like that in this world people who help you even when theyre struggling are people who make this world a better place