<!-- tags: #self-improvement #thoughts #website #writing --> # thoughts not essays exactly. more like emotional weather reports, tiny theories, questions i keep poking, and things i am still trying to understand. ## start here - [[The art of being alone]] - being by yourself without disappearing - [[rare people]] - the kind of people that make the world feel less flat - [[Priority]] - what matters when attention gets expensive - [[Real Beauty]] - looking properly, not just looking - [[to think and ask]] - better questions, better people ## self - [[alone]] - [[armor]] - [[Blink]] - [[dreams]] - [[good or bad person]] - [[jack of all trades]] - [[Lonely]] - [[mixed feelings]] - [[Oversharing]] - [[personality]] - [[regrets]] - [[stuck]] - [[Today]] - [[What to not overshare]] ## people - [[amumu’s party]] - [[garden of words/thoughts/apology|apology]] - [[giving up on you]] - [[Ideal Mate]] - [[pedestal]] - [[poets]] - [[rare people]] - [[to call]] - [[to listen]] ## ideas - [[Chair analogy]] - [[crying of delusions]] - [[do I actually want it or do I want others to see that I have it]] - [[Laws]] - [[Laws 2]] - [[Matrix]] - [[paradox]] ## how to - [[How to enjoy life and your job]] - [[How to learn more about a person]] - [[How to slow down]] - [[How to know if your relationship is moving too fast]] - [[How to meet girls]] - [[How to weed out men]] - [[How to weed out women]] - [[How to tell someone they are stupid]]