1. Wait at least a month before you have sex. dont tell them you have this rule. 2. What do you believe in? Straight up. Does he have values and can he explain them. 3. How to know if hes honest? Does he tell you things about himself which are “generally considered” unattractive e.g I love anime 4. He can hide behind words, even his actions. But his friends say it all. 5. Disarm them. If you like them, truthfully tell them. Now does he soften and thank you for being genuine. 6. share date stories. does he start getting weird 7. dont count cards, text them as much as you want. does he pull away 8. show your insecurity or irrationality. is he quick to go “oh youre crazy” 9. does it feel like hes trying to impress you or get to know you?