once you start talking to someone new do you find yourself over sharing your trauma it’s because you want that relationship to work and you want love because you know you deserve it so you tell them everything everything about you so they understand why you do what you do so they know who you are as soon as possible what you’re actually saying is if i ever behave like this in the future it’s because this happened to me in the past and i really want you to know that because i don’t want you to think like i’m acting out it’s because this happened to me, please understand because i want this to work with you